This 8-week program will help you get unstuck and give you real traction on your path forward. You’ll learn to recognize your emotions, uncover your true needs, and begin to heal, from the inside out.
We're calling on men who:
Look steady on the outside, but feel unsettled or empty inside
Carry shame, loneliness, or frustration they rarely share with others
Want deeper connection with their wife, family, and God
Feel “split” between the man they are and the man they long to be
THE PATH FORWARD
By the end of this course, you will:
Know how to name your feelings and the good needs behind them
Break free from shame, secrecy, and destructive coping patterns
Care for yourself in healthy ways - sleep, rest, exercise, balance
Connect deeply with yourself, your family, community, and God
Live with strength and vulnerability - fully alive, no longer at war inside
Right now, you may look “fine” to others, working hard, providing, doing what needs to be done. But inside, you might feel numb, frustrated, or isolated. Maybe you use work, porn, or substances to cope. Maybe your relationships aren’t what you hoped they’d be.
HOW IT WORKS
Step 1
Pinpoint the Problem – Get honest about what’s really going on inside and where you want to go.
Step 2
Learn Emotional Literacy – Notice, name, and express your feelings without shame or explosion.
Step 3
Heal Your Story – Understand how your past still shapes you today, and release false beliefs.
Step 4
Build Strong Life Skills – Gain practical tools to connect, set boundaries, and thrive in relationships.
Step 5
Live Well – Integrate new habits of health and faith, so you can bless your world with the man you’ve become.
Meet your coach
Hi, I'm John Kilmer. I’ve walked with men who outwardly had it together but felt shut down and isolated inside. My approach is gentle, practical, and rooted in faith—because real healing begins when we feel safe. My heart is to help men reconnect with themselves, with others, and with God.
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Inside the Course
8 modules over 8 weeks
Weekly video lessons (3×15 min)
Outlines for each module
Journaling, prayer reflections to put learning into practice
3 months access so you can revisit at your pace
Modules include
Defining the Problem & Visioning the Solution
Restoration: The Log Cabin Model
Emotions & Needs: The Gateway to Healing
The Trail Behind Us: Finding Clues from the Past
Trauma: What It Is and What to Do About It
The 3 Parts of You and How to Befriend Them
Addictions, Dependencies & Boundaries
The Restoration Toolbox & What’s Next
Your Investment
$397 for the full 8-week self-paced experience.
Why Now?
If nothing changes, the cost is steep:
Ongoing shame, secrecy, or isolation
Strained relationships with those you love
Living shut down instead of alive
Remaining stuck in addictive or numbing patterns
You don’t have to keep surviving.
You can start thriving now.
Frequently asked questions
About an hour, x short video lessons plus reflection.
You’ll have 3 months to complete everything at your own pace.
If you engage the lessons and exercises, you’ll leave with tools, insight, and a renewed sense of hope.
The course is grounded in a Christian worldview, but men of all backgrounds are welcome. You’ll find the principles practical and life-giving.
You’ll feel more alive, free, and connected. You’ll have a gameplan for your emotions and relationships. You’ll know how to care for yourself and move forward with integrity.
Your Next Step
This is your invitation to step into a new way of living.
Enroll today and begin your 8-week journey toward freedom, connection, and restoration.
Contact
johnkilmerlifecoaching@gmail.com
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